OurTime

Met Thomas. Admitted he lied about his age. So I asked questions and did research. Said he was a widower. Could not verify. Found former home. Sold, and wife listed in another state. Did not like questions but I am not going to trust when he admits the first time we met he lied. Not sure I want to pay to meet a person who lies. And THEN says he wanted a sexual relationship. I’d already said no. Just not worth the stress.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

Do not use this site. They charged me £119 to get started and no chance of getting it back. I have to write 180 characters or they do not except my review. They are rubbish, do not use this site, you have been warned. They are too expensive for what they do even though they sponsor some TV shows.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

Site is a scam, does not let messages connect to other patrons. Blocks messags and tampers with profiles. Has not let any messages with anyone for a week. Contacted customer service several times and no response or anything done. Nobody seems to want to make this site work. Very unreliable very misinformed most definitely is a scam.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

I have been a member of OurTime for about 4 months with a paid subscription. My profile is constantly hacked. I call about the problem multiple times and they keep telling me to change password. I keep doing that and the hacking continues. Some change my profile and shotgun the country with messages. I paid good money and the site is worthless for me. I can't even use it because of the constant hacking. OurTime is the only site with this problem. They need to fix their cybersecurity. Don't use it. It's worthless. I've heard of others with the same problem. Stay away from OurTime...

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

I bought a 6-month subscription and wrote my profile using about the 1200 characters I later learned was the limit. Three days later I went to edit it and was now limited to 200 characters - "their new limit." One week later I realized they had charged PayPal not only $108.10 but $23.83 and $27.08 for no known reason. Many "flirts" from all over the country asked for my email or phone number to avoid using the site. One person wrote saying his account had been hacked and it wasn’t he who had written asking for my phone/email and to "be very careful." Many have no photo or don’t match the description I gave to OurTime of the type of person I was interested in. Occasionally profiles appeared to be fake or had pictures of women. After 3 days I contacted them about my misgivings but they wouldn’t let me cancel any part of the subscription.

Perhaps this is the nature of online dating - but it’s not for me.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

I am a 60s woman who decided to try meeting someone online again for the new year. I am lonely and alone so decided to try to do something new to improve my chances of meeting someone to date. I joined OurTime on January 5, 2020. I had joined OurTime approximately 8 years ago and there were not many locals on the site then. I did manage to get one date at that time.

Now fast forward to 2020: there is a wide selection of local men which I was happily surprised by. I signed up for the free profile. And I did start receiving flirts and messages that I could not see unless I paid. So I did a paid membership since I really wanted to meet someone local. The first men who contacted me seemed local but said they were overseas - one for the military, etc. Most age 60s men are no longer in the military so I knew this was a scam profile. However, after much due diligence, I thought I could tell the scam profiles from the real profiles. I live in a VERY rural area and there are lots of local men on here which is VERY strange. I started seeing the same profiles with different pics and realized that most of these profiles are fake. I am single, retired and sitting home all day. I put in the effort to contact but never got any responses to my efforts. I had flirts with canned messages from some men, mostly out of state. I found 2 men who were real out of about 100 profiles that I looked at.

I was SO disappointed that OurTime is FAKE. No customer service. When I told one man he was a scammer (he had one fake profile that I had read many times) after he sent me an instant chat and wanted to ask me a lot of personal questions, he tried to convince me that I was wrong. So who is this contacting me on the fake profile?! When I told him that he was a scammer and that I was going to block him and report him, he became irate and cursed. His profile disappeared before I could block him and there is nowhere to report him to. Non-existent customer service. Thank God I only signed up for one month.

I am SO disappointed that OurTime is fake and not legitimate. Had to cancel my account in advance or they would auto-bill every month. Will keep an eye on my account to make sure they don't put charges on my credit card or worse give out my credit card info for scammers. Hope this helps others.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

As a subscriber of Ourtime.com, you get 100 profile suggestions a day.

- I daily discovered so-called scammer/misused pictures.

- Over manipulated pictures with fake backgrounds, oversized upper arms, enlarged hands...too obvious.

- Pictures with under-aged children.

- Too many profiles have no picture, visiting your profile even sends likes to you.

- For an additional fee you can browse other profiles incognito. Why is that a good thing??

- Shuffles has suggested other women even though I have signed up for a woman looking for a man on the site.

On their web site it says: "Verified profiles"! Our time.com does not really seem care too much about your online safety. Neither do they seem they care about all the stolen pictures and identities that are being misused by scammers and trolls. You wounder what you are paying for after you have reported over 10 scammers a day!

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

I received an email from OurTime offering a free 14-day subscription. I canceled within the 14 days, but they claim that my subscription did not have the free 14-day feature. I checked online - Better Business Bureau has received numerous complaints about their scam.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

Been on OurTime for a little over a month. Being a widow, I hoped to meet a friend and go from there. Prepaid for services yet every time I signed in they wanted me to improve my chances of finding someone by buying more services. I declined. Three days ago I tried to sign in but there popped up a message to buy ConnectMe. I couldn’t get rid of the message, and had to use a different phone to ask for help. Each time an AI answered my text, they wanted me to pay for help. I refused and still can’t get past that ConnectMe screen. I can’t use OurTime even though I’ve paid to use it. I’ve sent endless messages trying to get help but they want a fee to address the problem.

Three days later my screen is still frozen and I can’t use OurTime. The phone number listed does not work. The men they say I match with do not appeal to me. So I’ve prepaid for a service I can’t use because they have frozen the screen and I can’t access the site unless I buy an improvement I don’t want. I’ve used another phone to access OurTime to get help and they want to charge me to help me.

I’d rather be alone than deal with OurTime. I want to cancel my membership. It’s not worth my time.

Length of Use: Less than 3 months

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

Not a user-friendly sigh up site. Almost gave up. Member for two months and bailed. Scammers a-plenty, and most members are insincere. Looking for a sugar daddy I suspect. However, best member profiles I have encountered when genuine.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

I find it extremely aggravating that every SINGLE time I go to log in, and I mean every time, it says it doesn't recognize my email and password. So I have to keep changing my passwords. So I have to keep a log because it won't let you reuse an old password and I've gone through so many. I tried changing browsers, no help. The site itself is decent. I had no luck getting guys to respond on Match at all and I consider myself a decent looking 64-year-old woman. Although Match does provide more detail in the profile, which I like.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend