After fiddling around with the various pads and panties available, suffering from surge incontinence, I have found for sitting around all-day the overnight pads work best for me. They contained any floods I might have, kept me dry with no leakage, that is if I changed pad before a second flood.
At night, in bed, I prefer panties.
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Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend